You’re flooded with self-doubt and as long as your trauma is running, unresolved and unrestrained in the back of your consciousness, it will continue to make your life difficult. Your trauma is the number one reason why you struggle to see results. You need to resolve these to discover how to be your best self.
How to Be Your Best Self
Unresolved trauma is why, no matter what you do.
You’ll feel like you’re…
- Failing to hit your financial goals.
- Spinning your wheels, staying busy, but never really getting anywhere.
- Lacking motivation; like you’re operating aimlessly, day to day.
- Staying silent in moments when you know your voice is really important.
Why?
Because you can’t think greater than you feel.
Your trauma keeps you stuck in negative feelings and emotions about yourself, others, and the world.
- It’s what fires when you feel triggered.
- It’s what causes your constant feelings of confusion and self doubt.
- It’s responsible for your feelings of neediness…
- Or wanting to justify… or defend… or avoid it altogether, by going into people pleasing all the time.
And your trauma is what has you feeling like you’re not capable, not worthy, or not enough, which is what stops every human being.
Being Your Best Self in a Time of Crisis
This is why no structure, process, policy, procedure or system is going to leave you feeling more secure.
Those things will only help your business run smoother. They’re not going to change the behavior that is a result of your emotional self, feeling out of alignment from what you are truly capable of living.
They’re just going to band aid those feelings – temporarily. Until you end up right back where you were in the first place.
Recently I had a client who explained how this feels so poignantly; I want to share it with you.
She said, “Every day, I live in fear, worry, and concern about what I’m doing. I’m confused about my finances and my savings. I’m constantly buying and then waiting and then not using what I bought. My business feels like drudgery. Like I’m constantly moving through the mud. It feels hard. I see myself as a mediocre woman, never doing anything big, constantly trying to understand and better myself, trying to fill a deep hole inside of me that says, I just don’t get it, I missed it. And I’m tired… I’m tired of taking care of everybody else. Feeling dread that I might die this way, never having reached or found or understood what this really is.”
Who hasn’t felt this way?!
Does any of this resonate with you?
Improving Your Situation Requires Change
After doing our program, the group asked her what had changed, and she laughed, and said, “every single one of those things on my list.”
You see, the reason is that we have an unresolved trauma running in the background of our minds…
We tend to waste a lot of time, money, and effort doing things that really don’t matter.
Because we’re living in resistance to life.
- We’re in resistance, in judgment, in blame, trying to control or defend or justify something.
- We resist or judge ourselves for what we should be doing.
- Or we are in resistance feeling like life or people shouldn’t be the way they are.
All of which are symptoms of your core trauma.
But once you locate the original root cause of where this is all coming from, the problem no longer keeps us stuck, stopped, or struggling.
Because the truth will always set you free.
Summary – Be a Better You
If you want to know how to be your best self, ask yourself:
What symptoms of unresolved trauma are you experiencing?
- Confusion
- Self doubt
- Limiting thoughts
Not sure?
Read my book, Meant For More, to uncover and discover how to overcome trauma and live a life you love.
Take part in the 5-day challenge to resolve trauma, confront limiting beliefs and end self doubt. Discover how to align your emotions, thoughts and actions, to take back your true power and make decisions with clarity and deeper self awareness, with practical and proven exercises. Give yourself the power to commit to consistent action and grow your business to 6 and 7 figures the easier way.
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